It is my birthday today, and I am enjoying all the love that a birthday on Facebook can bring. In real life, my significant other hasn’t bothered to tell me Happy Birthday yet. I know it’s early but he’s up, so….
It has been 4 years since I last did something for my birthday or even had a cake. I don’t really expect that trend to end, especially with my dad being gone. I know that birthdays and holidays are mainly a big day for kids but is it wrong for me to kind of want to have a special day?
At this point, I figure I’ll take myself out to lunch or something, and perhaps buy myself a book. These are things that I would have readily done for myself, and by myself, before child, but don’t do anymore.
I usually feel bad about spending money on myself so, tbh, I’m looking for my social networking peeps to tell me it’s okay. Is it?